KOOKBOOK.

A free, non-diagnostic check-in

Seven signs you may be living beside each other

Answer for the last four weeks. Do not present the score as evidence for the prosecution. Compare what each of you sees differently.

01We exchange more logistical information than real thoughts, desires, and fears.
02I can predict my partner's answer, so I ask fewer genuine questions.
03After conflict, closing the case matters more than recovering contact.
04Touch feels more like a signal for sex or a duty than a free language of closeness.
05The phone regularly gets our best attention; my partner gets what remains.
06We have few recent experiences that both of us call truly ours.
07I rarely look at my partner as a person who can still surprise me.